Monday, January 16, 2012

Questionnaire Response - TFWM0112



TFWM0112

This is an email received 011612.

1 How old are you?
46 next month
2 Have you ever been married?
yes
3 Have you ever been divorced?
yes

4 1 Do you consider yourself to be more of a nice guy or a tough guy in your relationships with women?
nice but, with some rigidity in my own morals

5  Do you believe that women prefer assholes - if so, why.  If not, why not?
yes they do, as long as the guy is more of an asshole to others than
he is to her

6 Do you use "pick up lines" when approaching a woman for the first time?
you have to use them these days, makes a woman pick up on wit and humor

7 If yes to the above, what is your favorite pick up line?
depends on situation of first good conversation:   after a few minutes
of talking I would just look her in her eyes and say her name, give a
dramatic pause, then tell her with all honesty that she reminds you of
someone you have  never met before!

8 What do you feel is the best way to win a woman's heart?
make her the object of all your attention and never discuss you lost loves

9 Do you believe in love at first sight?
no, I believe in desire at first sight and how things progress from if
love happens, job well done

10 Have you ever been dumped by a woman?  If so, what was the reason that she dumped you?
ex-wife says it all…..

11 Have you ever dumped a woman?  if so, what was the reason that you dumped her?
she said she wanted to be on her own (means another guy)
12 Have you ever spoken to a woman in a hostile and derogatory manner (i.e. called her a fucking bitch or something of the sort)  If so, what prompted you to do so?
I can honestly say that is something I have never done (while I was sober)

13 Have you ever been in a situation where you had to hit a woman?  If so, describe what happened.
never have raised my hand to a woman

14 Have you ever had a woman become physically abusive towards you?
oh yes

15 Have you have had a woman be verbally abuse you?
definitely

16 If your friend recently broke up with his girlfriend and she started coming on to you would you have sex with her?  Why or why not and if you did would you tell your friend?
no, I would rather ruin a friendship over something that may not last,
after all she went through a breakup with my best friend

17 If your buddy's existing girlfriend sent you a text message telling you she thinks you are hot would you:
a) Ignore the message and pretend like nothing happened
b) Tell your friend about the text message
c) Privately tell the girl that you think the message is inappropriate
and don't want her to send more messages to you like that
d) Respond to the message telling her you like her too and try to have
sex with her
z) play it off example:  respond to the message telling her she must
be psychic because you just through working out and you are sweating
your ass off………   never go after your friends girlfriend present or
past, whew, hard times if you do

18 What is the single worst experience you have ever had with a woman?
divorce

19 What is the single best experience you have ever had with a momen?
3 hours of passion, romance and wild kinky sex, then I woke up and
realized it was all a dream

20 Do you feel that women treat nice guys like doormats?  If so, why?
of course they do….. women view being nice as the confession of being submissive

21 Is it ever okay to lie to the woman you love or are married to?
by all means yes…..   honey does these pants make my butt look big?
You answer no way, while you are secretly thinking, well, at least no
bigger than Alabama, girl you got the bamma butt going on, but in the
overall scheme of things are you lying to protect your secrets, or are
you lying to avoid putting your relationship in jeopardy……  a lie is
not a bad thing, sometimes it is better than the truth

22 What is the most powerful tool that you have found to control a woman?
the tongue, if you can’t talk your way out of a jam, you lick all your
troubles away

23 Is it okay to cheat on your wife or long time girlfriend?
not until they become officially your EX

24 What is the best way that you have found to attract women?
humor, jovial attitude, and an open ear for her problems because you
are going to hear about them

25 Have you ever tried a dating service?  If so, how was your experience and would you recommend a dating service to other single men?
never tried one…….   If the man is bashful or shy he may need
guidance, so I would recommend a service

26 What words of advice would you give a young man who is just starting out in the dating world?
remember one thing, you two will not get married, but you better
quickly learn to give in and not have to be the “man” all the time

27 What words of advice would you give a man who is getting ready to get married?
good luck        I think that after my separation/divorce that is all
I can offer

28 What words of advice would you give a man who is frustrated with his relationship and wants to get out?
I would have to tell him if he is this frustrated now, just think how
much worse he will feel later on, get out now

29 What words of advice would you give to a man that is going to marry a women he doesn't really love just because he got her pregnant?
child support is cheaper than alimony and child support

30 How do you feel about marrying a woman who is divorced with children?  Could you love her children as you much as you would your own?
no doubt, it doesn’t matter the sperm donor, what matters most is what
kind of dad I could be

31 If there was anything you could change about any one your previous relationships what would it be?  (This has to be a change that is something you can control or do differently yourself.)
I would not have gotten married

32 What is the best experience you ever had in a relationship? - maybe staying in bed all day watching movies, a vacation trip somewhere, or anything else.  Think of a time where you had a great time together - it can be with our without sex.
using my telescope and star gazing for hours while we just talked the
night away, made that night memorable

33 Do you enjoy cunnilingus (eating pussy)?
slurp!!!  Heck yeah

34 Would you be willing to engage in a menage a trois if your girlfriend brought over a hot female friend of hers?
sex is sex, no love involved there just sex, so yes I would

35 Would you be willing to engage in a manage a trois if your girlfriend wanted to get it on with you and another guy?
oh lord, I never even thought of that, I would have to give it some
deep thought, I said thought not throat

36 Last words.
Women are genetically mutated to dominating over men, we need to get
use to it and either learn to live with it or find a good monastery

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Interview Questionnaire


The questions are a guideline for the interview.

 Expected time to complete is 45 minutes to 2 hours.  The questions are weighted against a scale that will help me to determine; your personality type, your experience and commonalities with others like you.  Additionally, I hope to gather any words of wisdom that you are willing to share for the poor nice guys out there that don't have a clue!

I know it's tough to give our your secrets; but, it's time for the average nice guy out there to have a manual to follow to get chicks and find the woman of his dreams.  Dig deep and remember that you can remain anonymous if you choose to.

The questionnaire is a living document that will be updated from time to time based on the feedback that I get from everyone that participates.

> How old are you?

> Have you ever been married?

> Have you ever been divorced?

> Do you consider yourself to be more of a nice guy or a tough guy in your relationships with women?

>  Do you believe that women prefer assholes - if so, why.  If not, why not?

> Do you use "pick up lines" when approaching a woman for the first time?

> If yes to the above, what is your favorite pick up line?

> What do you feel is the best way to win a woman's heart?

> Do you believe in love at first sight?

> Have you ever been dumped by a woman?  If so, what was the reason that she dumped you?

> Have you ever dumped a woman?  if so, what was the reason that you dumped her?

> Have you ever spoken to a woman in a hostile and derogatory manner (i.e. called her a fucking bitch or something of the sort)  If so, what prompted you to do so?

> Have you ever been in a situation where you had to hit a woman?  If so, describe what happened.

> Have you ever had a woman become physically abusive towards you?

> Have you have had a woman be verbally abuse you?

> If your friend recently broke up with his girlfriend and she started coming on to you would you have sex with her?  Why or why not and if you did would you tell your friend?

> If your buddy's existing girlfriend sent you a text message telling you she thinks you are hot would you:


a) Ignore the message and pretend like nothing happened
b) Tell your friend about the text message
c) Privately tell the girl that you think the message is inappropriate and don't want her to send more messages to you like that
d) Respond to the message telling her you like her too and try to have sex with her


> What is the single worst experience you have ever had with a woman?

> What is the single best experience you have ever had with a momen?

> Do you feel that women treat nice guys like doormats?  If so, why?

> Is it ever okay to lie to the woman you love or are married to?

> What is the most powerful tool that you have found to control a woman?

> Is it okay to cheat on your wife or long time girlfriend?

> What is the best way that you have found to attract women?

> Have you ever tried a dating service?  If so, how was your experience and would you recommend a dating service to other single men?

> What words of advice would you give a young man who is just starting out in the dating world?

> What words of advice would you give a man who is getting ready to get married?

> What words of advice would you give a man who is frustrated with his relationship and wants to get out?

> What words of advice would you give to a man that is going to marry a women he doesn't really love just because he got her pregnant?

> How do you feel about marrying a woman who is divorced with children?  Could you love her children as you much as you would your own?

> If there was anything you could change about any one your previous relationships what would it be?  (This has to be a change that is something you can control or do differently yourself.)

> What is the best experience you ever had in a relationship? - maybe staying in bed all day watching movies, a vacation trip somewhere, or anything else.  Think of a time where you had a great time together - it can be with our without sex.

> Do you enjoy cunnilingus (eating pussy)?

> Would you be willing to engage in a menage a trois if your girlfriend brought over a hot female friend of hers?

> Would you be willing to engage in a manage a trois if your girlfriend wanted to get it on with you and another guy?

> Last words.




Saturday, December 24, 2011

Why Women Love Assholes


I have heard that there are guides out there that women use to control men.  I have read some of these books that women like to keep "secret".   I can think of one that comes to mind that I won't mention because I don't want to bear the wrath of the women who strive to keep it's title a secret.  I can mention magazines like cosmopolitan.  They are very overt in their instruction on to how to please, titillate and control men.  Have you ever read cosmo?  If your a guy probably not.  Maybe you looked at some of the bodacious models in the ads but, if you look really closely you will find that it is a handbook, a guide to please and control men.  I'm down with the pleasing part but not so much with the control.

For the average "nice guy" the terrain of meeting and keeping a nice girl is a perilous journey with no map or compass to show the way.  It is a series of trial and error, mostly error that leads us to the path of wisdom.  The problem is, most men who have traveled this journey to wisdom do not want to give out their secrets.

I don't know exactly why they don't want to share; but, I believe it may have something to do with pride and loyalty.  Especially, since we don't want this information to get into the wrong hands.

I am on a journey to collect the tips, tricks and words of wisdom from all men.  This is a personal journey that is motivated only by my desire to find the truth as best as I can define it, and to share it with other "nice guys" like me who have suffered the pangs of unrequited love due to our very nature of being nice.  Somehow it seems that women prefer the "tough guy".  I will conduct many interviews, organize and summarize the responses and then present the results here once this project is complete.