Saturday, December 24, 2011

Why Women Love Assholes


I have heard that there are guides out there that women use to control men.  I have read some of these books that women like to keep "secret".   I can think of one that comes to mind that I won't mention because I don't want to bear the wrath of the women who strive to keep it's title a secret.  I can mention magazines like cosmopolitan.  They are very overt in their instruction on to how to please, titillate and control men.  Have you ever read cosmo?  If your a guy probably not.  Maybe you looked at some of the bodacious models in the ads but, if you look really closely you will find that it is a handbook, a guide to please and control men.  I'm down with the pleasing part but not so much with the control.

For the average "nice guy" the terrain of meeting and keeping a nice girl is a perilous journey with no map or compass to show the way.  It is a series of trial and error, mostly error that leads us to the path of wisdom.  The problem is, most men who have traveled this journey to wisdom do not want to give out their secrets.

I don't know exactly why they don't want to share; but, I believe it may have something to do with pride and loyalty.  Especially, since we don't want this information to get into the wrong hands.

I am on a journey to collect the tips, tricks and words of wisdom from all men.  This is a personal journey that is motivated only by my desire to find the truth as best as I can define it, and to share it with other "nice guys" like me who have suffered the pangs of unrequited love due to our very nature of being nice.  Somehow it seems that women prefer the "tough guy".  I will conduct many interviews, organize and summarize the responses and then present the results here once this project is complete.